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Advice and tips on managing mental health, maintaining a positive outlook and becoming your happiest self.
Why Troubled Children Have an Increased Trauma In Society
As a former "troubled child" I learned two things normal communication even in the 90s was difficult for me. One, I learned no one listens. Two, if I have a meltdown I will be restrained. Most troubled children like myself when restrained by professionals who wouldn't listen to me traumatized me enough but being able to not move embraced with a professional gripping my hands. That was beyond traumatizing. I didn't know this was still a common practice until I overheard one of my peers who is a major in Psychology interning at some nonprofit agency that's similar to the 90s verse of Latch Key.
Louise Blake-Michael (Risen Phoenix)Published 2 months ago in PsycheShadows of the Mind
In the labyrinthine corridors of the human psyche, few phenomena command as profound a contemplation as clinical depression. Beyond the transient melancholy evoked by fleeting sorrows, lies a profound enigma - a chasm of despair that defies conventional understanding. Embarking on a philosophical odyssey, we venture into the murky depths of this existential quandary, seeking not merely to dissect its components, but to unearth the profound truths it unveils about the human condition.
Ezekiel Cyrus AhmedPublished 2 months ago in Psyche- Top Story - April 2024
Saying Goodbye to the Blues
I woke up this morning knowing my depression had come for a visit. I should have known it was coming. I haven't been able to sleep very well the past few days, but I chalked it up to my creative mind going on overdrive recently. It took me five days to finish a 348 page book when it would have normally took me five hours. My motivation has been dwindling, yes, there were many subtle signs my depression was coming to a head.
Alexandria StanwyckPublished 2 months ago in Psyche The Powerful Influence of Our Mindset on Those Around Us
Our way of thinking not only shapes our own reality but also exerts a significant influence on the people around us. From our attitudes to our ingrained beliefs, every thought we harbor emits an energy that impacts our environment. Through studies and observations, the transformative power of a positive mindset has been demonstrated, showing how it can inspire and motivate others to reach their full potential.
I live in this world but not of it
This is my first article of the year, 2024 in this community. I have announced my intentions and aspirations for this year for Vocal. One of them was to publish at least one writing consistently. So here I am.
Sleep Issues Caused by Narcissistic Abuse
The silent thief that steals our nights and, in turn, our days, poor sleep is a prevalent symptom for many survivors of narcissistic abuse. Sleep should be a time of peace and rejuvenation, a sanctuary for our bodies and minds, yet for those battling the haunting impact of this type of abuse, sleep can feel like an unattainable luxury.
Amy ChristiePublished 3 months ago in PsychePsychological manipulation
Psychological manipulation Today we will explore all the concepts and actions of a psychological manipulator through a book summary. Psychological manipulation by expert Chanel Thomas written by author Tieu Hy at Spider Room If you regularly participate in social networking platforms, you will know that psychological manipulation is one of the most prominent phrases. in 2022 But manipulators can be anyone, from strangers to loved ones, who love the power to control their pleasures and the mind games they are playing. Know if you are in a manipulative relationship. Let victim of psychological manipulation and author of psychological manipulation books, prolific psychological consultant Chanel, guide you. And let the day begin when psychological abuse leaves no bruises, no broken bones, no holes in the walls, no holes, no deep voids in the hearts of survivors. is exactly what abusers want. The common trait of abusers is to always keep their hands clean and introduce the person to everyone. Quote from the first psychological manipulation book, who can be a psychological abuser. They can be anyone, a narcissist, an antisocial person, a father, a mother, a sibling, a grandparent, an aunt, an uncle, a cousin, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a wife/ husband, an adult child, a co-worker, a boss, a pastor a teacher It is often difficult to detect abuse because it comes in many different forms and characteristics. There is a myth that abusers are primarily men. This is not entirely true. Yes, women can be abusers too, but the abuse is often different and more covered up. In a survey asking about abusive relationships with victims, results were given to 603 people. Answered the question with 122 people. 20% answered that the abuser had a close relationship with them such as parents, siblings, and Mr. and Mrs. Van Van. Of these 121 people, 87 wrote about their abuser being a relative. family mentioned mother-in-law mother-in-law or step-mother 41 times, step-parent mentioned 27 times and father mentioned male abuser 8 times in another study 433 people 72% of 603 participants reported According to the report According to reports, the abuser is often someone who is in a loving relationship with them. Of 102/433 people, 31 people identified as boyfriends, 30 people identified as husband and wife and 27 people identified as husband. 2 abusers engage in psychologically harmful behavior First Manipulative behavior occurs in the presence of toxic people Can be present anywhere Even in the field of mental health care, abuse can generally be divided into two Parts The first is between individuals, parents, children, love relationships, friends, etc. The second part is in a group of people among family members at work or in a religious organization. Manipulative behavior occurs when abusers tend to target people who have things they don't have or have abused. Sometimes it is only intended to bring pleasure, to enhance the personal interests of the individual being satisfied. evil ego by damaging and destroying the victim's personality. There are two truths about the survivor that the abuser holds most dear, the first is the survivor's lack of self-confidence and the second is the secret about the survivor's past growing up experiences of being manipulated. How poor. Abusers often love power, control, fun, and the mind games they are playing. The abuser will give out information. then silently watched the victim make a mistake. They only mock and criticize the survivor because they made a mistake. Toxic people who abuse children like to label survivors as selfish when they are trying. something good and healthy for themselves. Emotional abusers will stubbornly refuse to admit that their actions have hurt others. There is an avoidance tactic that is often used so that the abuser may unintentionally fall victim to everyday situations in life, such as friends not being that stingy with me or partners who would never hours of such behavior I expect more from employees. Surely like you, of course there will be more subtle hidden verbal actions that take place over a long period of time that are difficult to detect for until the person living under control realizes how much psychological manipulation he or she has gone through. Why does permissive behavior occur? Abusers may be people with personality disorders caused by a lack of healthy love from childhood and adolescence with their caregivers. A lack of healthy love can be the result of emotional neglect during childhood and adolescence. The child's physical needs may be met but apathy still exists. Including artificial bonds between family members in the past may cause some people to develop a personality disorder, but it is not an excuse for abusive behavior. If you want to manipulate psychology, there are still people who grew up in families lacking love but they are still very sympathetic, caring and treat others well, that's the truth.
The Decline of Childhood Literacy
The link between the decline in childhood literacy and poverty has been well established since before the COVID lockdowns and yet, were exacerbated by them in ways that we could not imagine. Lack of resources, lack of role models and lack of incentive means that the BBC reported even before the lockdowns that more than half of the UK's children and teens did not enjoy reading in the spare time with disadvantaged children being more impacted than others. (BBC Newsround, 2023). There really is no sobering reality here, with numbers of children being able to read fluently and efficiently falling all over the UK since the coronavirus.
Annie KapurPublished 3 months ago in PsycheWhy Mobile Phone Radiation Is Harmful For Us
Nowadays smartphones are used by everyone, which has become an important part of life. With the help of these small devices we connect and update with each other, even this has become a great source of entertainment. It is also being used to track everything like shopping, movie tickets, flight tickets, reading, etc. Due to handling so many tasks in minutes, the Smartphone has replaced books, alarm clocks, cameras and notepads. Even we can see that in a family instead of people there are more number of smart phones. Now a days, life is incomplete without Smartphone, it has also become a habit with a necessity. The Smartphone has many benefits, but it can’t be ignored that the light coming out of the phone can cause significant damage to the health. Specifically, if you use your Smartphone for a long time, you need to know that the light coming from them can harm your health and invite many diseases too.
JUHITA MAJIPublished 3 months ago in PsycheWhy do you wake up at 3-5 a.m.? Discovering the Spiritual Reasons.
Have you ever woken up between three and five in the morning? I pondered whether there might be more going on than a coincidental sleep disruption? Today, using Shania Sheng's insightful research as a starting point, we investigate the mystical importance of waking up during these very early hours. Her extensive research on regression therapy, altered states of consciousness, and the subconscious mind sheds light on why these early-morning awakenings might be more significant than first believed. Come along with us as we set out on a fascinating trip to discover the spiritual meaning of these hours of the day and what it can mean for each of our personal spiritual pathways.
Ehra SilverioPublished 3 months ago in PsycheThe Struggle of Mental Health in "Hamlet" by W. Shakespeare
Whispered in the darkness, this inquiry initiates a narrative of intrigue, deceit, and ethical ambiguity. In a theatrical production where each character conceals something, the response to this question is anything but straightforward. Penned by William Shakespeare between 1599 and 1601, "Hamlet" portrays its eponymous protagonist tormented by the past, yet paralyzed by the future.
Francesca Giulia GeronimiPublished 3 months ago in PsycheDon't Sign That Medical Release
Fantastic neuro-spicy TikTokkers raised my awareness about ADHD in women enough to inspire me to get tested at the age of 58. Unfortunately, nobody warned me about how much leeway a psychiatrist has when passing on your most traumatic, sexual, and personal details, including all of his session notes which he can send to your general practitioner. Now my most personal experiences and thoughts are available to non-medical office staff, an entire hospital/ insurance system and everyone in their offices with access to medical files.
Lisa SuhayPublished 3 months ago in Psyche