family
Family can be our support system. Or they can be part of the problem. All about the complicated, loving, and difficult relationship with us and the ones who love us.
Healthy vs. Narcissistic Ghosting.
Ghosting is a form of stonewalling considered one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse in romantic relationships. Ghosting and stonewalling are avoidance defence strategies that break emotional bonds, lead to conflict, dysfunction, and eventual destruction of a relationship.
writemindmattersPublished about a month ago in PsycheA Life for a Life
My mother planted her voice deep inside my mind. A voice so obnoxious and strident that my autonomy collapsed into a dark corner. She taught me that love was synonymous with abusive control. She mentally imprisoned me to behave only in ways that appeased her. Her love, kindness, and care would vanish when I stepped out of line. Poof! Gone in a cloud of her cigarette smoke. For thirty years, I was chained to her every desire. Each decision I made, person I dated, or friend I had was all for her approval, her favor, her love. In her eyes, if I truly loved her, I would live my life for her. A life that she never got to live. A life that was stolen from her.
Kaneene PinedaPublished 2 months ago in PsycheAddiction
Introduction Addiction has a huge impact on society in ways we are just beginning to understand, it's affecting individuals and communities in diverse ways. Traditionally it's associated with substance abuse, addiction manifests in various forms, ranging from compulsive shopping to disordered eating and problematic online pornography use (POPU). These addictive behaviors can disrupt lives, strain relationships, and undermine well-being, posing significant challenges to both individuals and the world at large.
Can You Tickle Yourself?
Ever tried tickling yourself? That feather-light touch across your ribs, the mischievous anticipation building only to be met with... a disappointing lack of giggles. This seemingly simple act, a cornerstone of childhood laughter, holds a profound mystery: why can't we effectively tickle ourselves? The answer dives deep into the fascinating world of self-touch perception, sensory prediction, and the very fabric of our conscious experience.
Dilmeta AsmelashPublished 2 months ago in PsycheUnderstanding Attachment Theory: Its Role in Relationships and Personal Development
Understanding Attachment Theory: Its Role in Relationships and Personal Development Attachment theory, developed by John Bowlby and expanded upon by Mary Ainsworth, has profoundly influenced our understanding of human relationships and personal development. This theory suggests that the quality of our early attachments to primary caregivers shapes our beliefs, behaviors, and expectations in future relationships. In this article, we will delve into the role of attachment theory in relationships and personal development, exploring its implications for individuals across the lifespan.
The Divine Reset
In the vast tapestry of spiritual practices that grace our world, Yoruba spiritual cleansing stands out as a vibrant thread, weaving together elements of nature, tradition, and divine wisdom. Rooted in the rich cultural heritage of the Yoruba people of West Africa, this ancient practice offers a profound journey of renewal and connection, guiding practitioners towards inner harmony and alignment with the cosmos. In this comprehensive exploration, we delve deep into the essence of Yoruba spiritual cleansing, uncovering its rituals, purposes, and significance in the modern world.
Nauniie EubanksPublished 2 months ago in PsycheWhy Troubled Children Have an Increased Trauma In Society
As a former "troubled child" I learned two things normal communication even in the 90s was difficult for me. One, I learned no one listens. Two, if I have a meltdown I will be restrained. Most troubled children like myself when restrained by professionals who wouldn't listen to me traumatized me enough but being able to not move embraced with a professional gripping my hands. That was beyond traumatizing. I didn't know this was still a common practice until I overheard one of my peers who is a major in Psychology interning at some nonprofit agency that's similar to the 90s verse of Latch Key.
Louise Blake-Michael (Risen Phoenix)Published 2 months ago in PsycheNavigating Human Development: Insights from Developmental Psychology
Developmental psychology is a dynamic field that investigates the intricate processes of growth, change, and adaptation that occur across the human lifespan. From the moment of conception to the twilight years of life, individuals undergo a remarkable journey shaped by biological, cognitive, emotional, and social influences. This article provides a comprehensive overview of developmental psychology, delving into key theories, milestones, and factors that shape human development.
Abdur RahmanPublished 2 months ago in Psyche- Top Story - February 2024
My Little Valentine
It wasn’t My Funny Valentine. It wasn’t I’m a Little Valentine. Can I find it? No. So I will have more to say before I get to it.
Denise E LindquistPublished 2 months ago in Psyche Why do you wake up at 3-5 a.m.? Discovering the Spiritual Reasons.
Have you ever woken up between three and five in the morning? I pondered whether there might be more going on than a coincidental sleep disruption? Today, using Shania Sheng's insightful research as a starting point, we investigate the mystical importance of waking up during these very early hours. Her extensive research on regression therapy, altered states of consciousness, and the subconscious mind sheds light on why these early-morning awakenings might be more significant than first believed. Come along with us as we set out on a fascinating trip to discover the spiritual meaning of these hours of the day and what it can mean for each of our personal spiritual pathways.
Ehra SilverioPublished 3 months ago in PsycheThe Struggle of Mental Health in "Hamlet" by W. Shakespeare
Whispered in the darkness, this inquiry initiates a narrative of intrigue, deceit, and ethical ambiguity. In a theatrical production where each character conceals something, the response to this question is anything but straightforward. Penned by William Shakespeare between 1599 and 1601, "Hamlet" portrays its eponymous protagonist tormented by the past, yet paralyzed by the future.
Francesca Giulia GeronimiPublished 3 months ago in PsycheTraumatic Effects
What is Emotional Trauma? Symptoms of emotional trauma, an emotional outburst, extreme anxiety, and relationship issues, may seem very “crazy,” but these expressions are nothing more than a human reaction to a very abnormal situation. Bluntly, emotional trauma stems from any situation that makes us, and other mammalian species, think that we are in danger.
Raven BlackPublished 3 months ago in Psyche